Wiping one's bum should be a private thing...
How do you wipe your bum? Don't answer that... it's a rhetorical question. It might even be a philosophical one. And it's one I never thought of reflecting on, because I assumed everyone does it the same way. At least until I started thinking about teaching my kids how to wipe their bums. I only realised that there are different methods to this very private action after I got married and we passed the awkward "going to the loo in front of my significant other" phase. {I'm still awkward about this, btw...} TMI? Now, even though wiping one's bum is a very private action (and rightly so!) we, as Christians, can fall into the trap of thinking that the same applies for how we do church. In other words, we can easily assume that my church's way of doing things - whether it is style of worship, using liturgy or not, having kids in or out for the Service, etc. - is the best or right way of doing things; or even the only way of doing things. How wrong we are ...